This is the Story of a Car

 

This weekend my mom got her first car at the young age of 57. It was a gift to her from my dad. A testament of his love.

My parents are not flashy people. They’re far from it, actually. They live in a humble little house in a humble little city. They don’t go out to dinner, and they’ve been wearing the same clothes for ages. My dad drives a trusty (and maybe a bit rusty) old SUV to work each day while my mom stays home and tends to the house.

Did I mention that they’re still madly in love? As in, my dad has written a love note to my mom each day of their 36-year marriage. As in, my mom still holds on to every single word he says.

Back to the car, though.

While we were growing up, my dad got it in his mind that he had to buy each of his children --- my sister, brother and me --- a new car for high school graduation. We needed something nice and reliable as we embarked on the next leg of our journey: college. It was just like my dad to insist on this. He always wanted us to have the nicest of things and made sure that we did. Did I mention that he worked two jobs my entire childhood so that he could afford to do this?

To make sure they were able to afford to buy us new cars, my dad drove the same van for nearly 15 years. When the van fell apart, he bought an old SUV. My mom was able to drive it when she needed it, but it was my dad's car, and she was OK with that. She would occasionally borrow our cars when we were home, which wasn’t often. Still, she was OK with all of it.

This isn’t a story about cars. No, it’s far more than that. It’s the story of a woman, who was selfless enough to go without so that her children wouldn’t have to. It’s the story of a man that is always looking for a way to show his wife that he loves her. It’s the story of selflessness. It’s the story of patience. It's the story of good people getting what they deserve.

This is why, when my mom called on Sunday to tell me she finally had a car of her own, I cried.

 

(For some reason, this was perhaps one of the most emotional things I've ever written. I realize it's unlike anything else I've ever shared, but it was a story I had to tell.)

Comments

[Dewey Setlak]

My dad owns a pre-loved Chevy car, which we got from a friend at bargain price. We didn't even have to do repairs when we purchased it. Now I'm planning to buy him a new car for his birthday as a way of thanking him for always being there for me. Our parents are the best people we can rely on in times of need. :) I'm so thankful that I have them.

[Lisa Super]

I too have been gifted with parents that have been in love for 40 years. It would be exhausting to list the ways in which they've been an example to me and anyone else they've ever known. It sounds a little funny but aren't you proud of them? I know I am of my two goof balls :)

How sweet that it's finally Mama's turn. I'd be so giddy after all those years you'd likely find me doing donuts in the Safeway parking lot after dark.

[Linda Breshears]

Your parents sound like a true gift.

[shelley]

wonderful. just plain wonderful.
:)

[Kerrie More]

What a beautiful tribute! Loved the story and hope your mom enjoys her new car for years to come! (I too get emotional when reflecting on my parents and their unconditional love and sacrifices.) Best wishes!

[Ellen]

I love this, all they have shared and struggled together! YOU are so right, it isn't about the car~ It is about being selfless and in love! So glad you shared, it is a wonderful tribute to their story!

[Monica]

Thanks for the tears... they made me think. And be grateful.
xo

[Carson Wininger]

Your dad is one dedicated and praiseworthy man - a man whose virtues are steadfast and has a faithfulness that just won't wither. That car is, indeed, the symbol of the love and patience your parents have for each other. It is time to return the favor, don't you think? Give your dad a gift. A new van, perhaps?

[Stelle Courney]

Wow, your parents are deeply, madly in love with each other! It's quite precious to have someone you want to truly be with for the rest of your life. And your dad is admirable, not only for the plans that he laid for your family, but also for seeing it through for the rest of his life. Your mom deserves that car. :)

[D]

I'm crying... I can relate unfortunately my mother didn't marry a man who made sacrifices for others... I am so happy for your mom!!

[Ellsworth Mciltrot]

Aww. Hearing your story made me realize that true love does exist. Your parents have it. They were never selfish, and they even sacrificed a lot just to see the people they care about happy. Yes, your mom deserves every bit of her new car. This time, it’s her moment to be happy. Your dad loves her so much. :)